Real people. Real oversight. Real privacy.
Marriage requires trust before anything else. Here's exactly how Afayer earns it — no vague promises, just how each safeguard actually works.
Photo verification
Every member can complete a live selfie check that's compared against their profile photos. Verified profiles carry a badge, so you know at a glance who's confirmed to be a real person.
ID verification
Members can optionally verify a government-issued ID. It's never shown to other members — it's checked once by our safety team and simply upgrades your verification badge.
Chaperone mode
Invite a wali or trusted family member to a conversation. They can see the thread and step in if something feels off — oversight without giving up your privacy from everyone else.
Reporting & blocking
Report or block any member in two taps, right from their profile or a chat. Reports go straight to a human on our safety team, not a queue that nobody reads.
Message moderation
Automated moderation flags harassment, solicitation and abusive language before it reaches you, and repeat offenders are removed from the platform.
Three-tier photo privacy
Set each photo to Always public, Match-only reveal (shown once you connect), or Always blurred (never shown to anyone). Change it any time — your data stays encrypted in transit and at rest, and we never sell your information. See our Privacy Policy for the full detail.
Something doesn't feel right?
Report or block any member directly from their profile or a chat, or reach our safety team if you need help outside the app.